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The traffic has been awful and the deal you have been working on has disappeared into the ether. The firm has announced no pay rises and your boss is a plonker. Good news is that you have a date tonight and you can vent all your frustration and take it out on them. Always available and it’s no surprise that you will be snappy because you often are.

What might be a good idea would be if you were to treat them nicely. If it was your mate standing there as you walked through the door you would find it in you to smile and be polite. So why not the same treatment for someone who may turn into the most important person in the world to you?

It’s so easy when you date or partner is a handy sponge to mop up all your angst and I know couples who are snappy, irritable and waiting for a spot of verbal as soon as they meet.

Here’s a tip. Whatever your day has been like, run a bath for your partner for when they get home or have a drink waiting. Ask them all about their day and be interested in the answers. Commiserate and put your arm around their shoulders. What happens next? Probably the same back in return and you have both got your frustrations out but in a way where you are supporting and not knocking spots of each other.

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