Not being perfect is fantastic news
If you are not in a relationship right now which is a fair bet as you are on a dating site, it is tempting to blame your looks. Perhaps, it’s your weight, hair, complexion, figure or teeth.
Welcome to the real world where nobody is perfect but lots of us would [...]
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Not being perfect is fantastic news
Where Is Mr Perfect?
The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. Prince Charming, riding on a white stallion, lost his way or found Princess Charming and got married on his way to your castle. Get over it and get on with it. You ARE going to have [...]
Get Over Your Ex Before Moving On
If you are an emotional wreck after your last relationship, it might be an idea to lick your wounds and get over it before dating again. If you don’t you might not be able to show the real you and focus on your new date without being preoccupied with yourself.
The additional problem is that you [...]
Honesty is the Best Policy when Online Dating
When you join an online dating service, you are looking for a girl that you can like…even come to love. That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love. What you aren’t looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect [...]
Online dating relationships need time too
Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.
Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If [...]
Choose the laughter
For me personally, this is the most important thing in all relationships including my own. Looks will fade, fortunes fade and health suffer but a sense of humour remains constant.
A sense of humour is a very personal thing and someone who laughs at your jokes and who makes you laugh also is the one to [...]
Sometimes it is love at first site.
Dating: You’ll know them straight away.
OK this doesn’t work for everybody but for some, love at first sight on a date is a reality. The secret when you do fall in love straight away is don’t take a gamble on being right and reveal your feelings immediately. If you take a bit of time and [...]
Being yourself is a good move
It must be tempting to reinvent yourself when you are hoping to meet someone new. Maybe you have decided what the ‘other’ person is looking for and decided to invent a persona to fit the bill. Are you going to become sophisticated or perhaps carry an air of mystery in order to attract that perfect [...]
You are what you are
You are naturally untidy. So untidy that the house gets a flick of a duster once a year and the pots get washed when there are no more pots available. Now oimagine you meet someone with a compulsive need to tidy fold the towels and iron the socks!
Nightmare city beckons because unless you are a [...]
Serial Monogomists
I once knew a man who was always in a relationship. He was what is called a serious monogamist and as soon as one relationship finished he was into the next. I asked him why and he said he hated being on his own and so he made sure it never happened. This meant that [...]
